of the times I do something that is dishonest. I have only two - three instances in my life in which I'm deeply sorry for something I said. WHY.... because even though I felt it to be a truth or true feeling at that time in my life....it hurt the soul of a friend and I am forever sorry for saying it. TODAY -- As I strive for maturity.... I certainly watch my mouth and weigh my words... and would a thousand-times rather be silent than to cause a hurt with my words....
Recently, there is one trouble-some instance whereas a precious-weekly-meeting of hearts/friendship has become silent.... I wonder if I said something or acted offensively. I've not asked my friend why. There is only silence.... a facebook friend hi... and then blank silence. And no, I'm not a peace. There was not enough depth for either of us to trust each other to talk. My suspicions is that my lady-friend avoids me due to political statements and beliefs that I express too freely (and hopefully at the appropriate times)
Regarding my blog today.... a quilter girlfriend told me that someone looked at statements in this 2009-2012 BQUILTIN BLOG...... and I made a statement about his/her relative. The person was indignant -- disagreeing with me. My daughter is much more of a private individual, and reminds me that since GOOGLE and Facebook are such open, public-print venues -- that I should be careful!
My underlying thoughts and principles, motives and outlook on life are reflected as I write. I have no malice directed at anyone.
Recently, there is one trouble-some instance whereas a precious-weekly-meeting of hearts/friendship has become silent.... I wonder if I said something or acted offensively. I've not asked my friend why. There is only silence.... a facebook friend hi... and then blank silence. And no, I'm not a peace. There was not enough depth for either of us to trust each other to talk. My suspicions is that my lady-friend avoids me due to political statements and beliefs that I express too freely (and hopefully at the appropriate times)
Regarding my blog today.... a quilter girlfriend told me that someone looked at statements in this 2009-2012 BQUILTIN BLOG...... and I made a statement about his/her relative. The person was indignant -- disagreeing with me. My daughter is much more of a private individual, and reminds me that since GOOGLE and Facebook are such open, public-print venues -- that I should be careful!
My underlying thoughts and principles, motives and outlook on life are reflected as I write. I have no malice directed at anyone.
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